Wednesday 5 August, 2009

Relationships - Sit back and Ruminate

I have a small collection of good text messages which I thought of sharing on this space which seem like just a collage of words but are equal to one whole blog entry which I make. As you will go through them, we will realize (like I had) that if every individual takes these forwards seriously then how come there are these troubles in interpersonal relationships. Well, surely the world indeed will be a better place to live in if each and every individual will follow them true to the heart. But at the same time, let me tell you that the path isn't easy as it seems to be. One has just control over oneself and can't just control feelings of other people how much ever close one assumes that individual to be. Disappointments are bound to happen but still, as responsible "human beings" we can not just let go of spreading goodness as I had said in my earlier blog entry. So just sit back and Ruminate!

* Distance cannot seperate anyone, Time cannot bind anyone. If feelins are true from heart, Just close your eyes and You can find anyone

* Dont ever be angry on your loved ones, because upto the last moment of you life what hurts is not the words of our enemies but silence of our loved ones.

* You can never find a perfect friend in me, because what makes me human is my imperfection. But this would be for sure that i will always be your friend not perfect but TRUE

* Apologizing does not mean you are wrong and the other is right...It just means that you value personal relationships more than personal EGO

* Two ways to make a relationship lasting - Dont make it before understanding and dont break it after a misunderstanding

* Staying far never breaks relation, staying near never makes relation. It's a link between hearts, which never allow us to forgeteach other

* Sometimes missing is more precious than being together, because we only miss the people who we never want to miss in life

* "Close" and "Open" are actually opposites to each other. Yet in real life, we are only "open" to people with whom we are really "close".

* World's most beautiful sentence "But, I'm with you." World's most painful sentence "I am with you, But"

* Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relation. Its not how much we care in the beginning but how much we care till the end.

* Time alone can prove the worth of relationships. As time goes by we lose the false ones and the best ones stay.

* In life Don't trust people whose feelins change with time, instead trust those people whose feelings remain the same with changing times.

* Friendship is not just a word & not a simple relationship. its a silent promise which says, I will be with you Wherever, Whenever, Forever!

* Love isn't about expressing heavy words. Its about understanding a gentle touch and pure heart.

* Good relationships dont need any promises, any terms or conditions. It just needs 2 wonderful people. Not "U" and "Me" but "We."

* Relationship isn't about who came first or who came last or care more or who cares best but about who came and never left!

* If you trust a person till the very end, whatever the result maybe you will either have a good friend or a good lesson in the end.

P.S. - I would like to acknowledge Elita for actually inspiring this blog entry as well as the title of the blog (she might sue me tomorrow). A brilliant thinker she is, I could not match up to her thinking capacity and rather than coming out with my own one liners to ruminate I preferred to stick with the tried and tested, easy to get but deep in meaning text messages.)

2 comments:

Amit said...

The best one, IMO -
"Open" and "close" are actually opposites of each other, but we're really only 'open' to those we're 'close' :)

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